 Every Girls Dream
1. Get kissed in the rain
2. Have that one hott kiss where your pressed
against the wall
3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world
4. Have a guy that holds on as long as possible
when giving hugs
5. A boy that whispers he loves you in your ear
6. Have that moment where you just gaze into
eachother's eyes
7. When you cry, he kisses your tears away.
8. When you're not with your guy he's all that you
can think about
9. Wearing his jacket and everytime you breath in,
his scent surrounds you
10. A guy who will watch any movie with you, no
matter how teary eyed you may get.
11. A guy who squeezes your hand
12. A boy that says he loves you and means it
13. A guy that will play her favorite song outside
her window
14. A guy who is loyal
15. A guy that will sing to you no matter how bad
he is at it.
16. A guy that will kiss you on the forehead.
17. A guy that will call you beautiful or
adorable...not hot, fine, or sexy
18. A guy that will never judge you for how you
look.
19. A boy that says cheezy stuff to you just to
make u smile
20. A boy that is the same when he is with you
and when with friends
21. A boy that tells you everything honestly
22. A boy that is good with your family and
introduces you to his family
23. A guy that will always let you win
24. A guy who stands up for you no matter who it
is against
25. A guy who calls you at night just to say 'hi' and
see how your day has been
26. A boy who tells you that your smile makes his
day and makes everything better
27. A boy who will sit on the phone with you
when
you're sad, even if you're quiet
28. A boy who you can hangout and have fun with
29. A boy that will just randonmly call you for no
reason at all, just because he missed you
30. A guy who will hold your hand through the
roughest parts of life.
31. A guy who would love you forever no matter
the
circumstance.
32. A guy who wouldn't mind you wanting to get
all
dressed up and do your make up for him. Even if
he says he likes you better without make up.
33. A guy who you can be yourself with and he
will
never give a care and would still tell you that you
are amazing to him.
34. A guy who runs his fingers through your hair,
like he's washing your worries/troubles away.
35. A guy who tells you you make his day better,
just for being you
If your a Girl and you want this or think its sweet
post this with the title "Every Girls Dream"
If your a Guy and you would do this or think its
sweet post this with "I'm Every Girls Dream"
..another one..
Amazingly True.....
As we grow up, we learn that even the one
person
that wasn't supposed to ever let you down
probably
will. You will have your heart broken probably
more
than once and it's harder every time. You'll break
hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours
was broken. You'll fight with your best friend.
You'll
blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll
cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll
eventually lose someone you love. So take too
many pictures, laugh too much, and love like
you've never been hurt because every sixty
seconds you spend upset is a minute of
happiness
you'll never get back.
By Bo Sanchez
Getting married is the greatest mistake anyone can ever make.
Being wed is the height of insanity, the most ludicrous
commitment, the most totally illogical decision any human being can
fall into.
Tell me. Why should I commit myself to be with one woman for the
rest of my life - and thereby reject 3.2 billion other females in
the world?
Along the way, I'll meet a girl who'll be more beautiful, or more
intelligent, or more charming, or sexier, or holier. So why nail
myself down to one choice, permanently -- and suffer the agony of
simply watching beauties pass me by?
And in western countries, one out of two marriages end up in
divorce. That blows my mind. That's a pathetic 50% failure rate! I
would never buy a car, a stereo, a shaver, or even a nail clipper if
there was a 50% chance that it would conk out on me.I simply
wouldn't.
And why stay with one person "in sickness or in health, in riches
or in poverty, till death do us part"? Is my mind fried? If my shirt
shrinks on me because I eat too many pizzas, don't I just throw it
away and buy an XL? (That will be the day.) And if I outgrow my
ancient computer, don't I just look for an updated version?
And then there's the catastrophe some call kids. I mean, I don't
really want to wake up in the middle of the night to entertain a
self- centered, bald, toothless tyrant in diapers? Do I really want
little rampaging monsters to break the most expensive furniture in
my house? Do I really want juvenile creatures to stay on the phone
for six hours straight,listen to noise they call music that you
believe came directly from hell, and mope around uncommunicative,
catatonic, and depressed because another demented juvenile creature
(a.k.a.boyfriend) hasn't called in the passed thirty minutes?
Why should I go through the torture? Marriage is insanity.
But few years ago, on my 32nd birthday, I gave myself a special
birthday gift: I got married to a lovely woman -- and committed
myself to insane living.
Marowe is her name, the person I chose - out of 3.2 billion
females.
Yes, we now have a tiny tyrant that wakes us up at night, and in
the near future, we will most likely have little monsters that will
destroy our house during playtime, and creatures from outer space
that we will call teenagers.
Why?
For three reasons.
FAITH. We believe that God calls us into marriage. And if HE
called us there, that means He'll be there to meet us. We will
suffer all things-just let us be with our God.
HOPE. We confidently expect the best blessings -- immeasurably
much more than all the hardship. God will bless us beyond our
wildest dreams.
LOVE. Oh yes, there will be other females who'll be more
beautiful, or more intelligent, or more this and more that. But
they'll only be just that - females - like flowers in the field of a
million hectares of flower fields.
But not this woman - my Marowe - the one beautiful flower I have
personally chosen, personally picked from her roots, personally
planted in my own clay pot, personally watered everyday, personally
watched every day, and personally loved every day. Because of my
love for her, there will be no one like her.
In my heart, she will eternally be the most beautiful flower of
them all.
Because in the end, there will be only be faith, hope, and love.
And the greatest of these is LOVE.
Forwarded by Jim Paredes of Ateneo69.
Jim Paredes wrote:
Katipunan, QC incident
Dear friends,
Many of you may not have heard of the incident that
happened to a friend of my son last week at about
6:30 pm right in front of the thickly-populated area
of BPI-Katipunan, near shoppersville. she parked her
car right in front of BPI to make a withdrawal and
to do some groceries.
As she was getting into her car after doing her
chores, a man suddenly appeared beside her and tried
to bully her into moving to the passenger seat. when
she pressed her car horn to call attention, he
pushed her in the car and pinned her down with his
elbow on her neck. it was a good thing that she had
the presence of mind to continue to struggle and
press on her car horn to catch attention(even if she
had to use her foot to do this) Her assailant even
tried to make people believe that it was a domestic
matter by telling the crowd not to get involved as
it was a "private matter". But with the onlookers
multiplying by the second, her assailant finally
gave up and ran. that was when she stood up and
shouted for help. Thank God the guy got caught and
is now under police custody.
Last saturday, during the inquest, she told me that
what gave her the guts to fight her assailant was
the article "THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES" forwarded to
our e-groups! about a week prior to her attack. I am
re-forwarding the article (you can find it at the
bottom of this (e-mail) for everyone's benefit.
please tell your friends, family, and loved ones
about this. It works. may i just add that to a
certain extent, we have to get ourselves involved if
we see violence being committed on anyone like
calling on a security guard or a police officer even
if it appears to be a domestic matter. It seems that
a lot of attackers use that tactic to get away with
violence. Not many people know how to take care of
themselves when faced with such a situation.
Everyone, please be very, very careful.
THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG...
FYI - Through a rapist's eyes!
A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were
interviewed on what they look for in a potential
victim and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential
victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go
after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid or other
hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also
likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women
with short hair are not common targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They
will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove
quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut
clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell
phone, searching through their purse or doing other
activities while walking because they are off guard
and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from /
attacked at is grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are
looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a
second location where they don't have to worry about
getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they
get discouraged because it only takes a minute or
two for! them to realize that going after you isn't
worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who
have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be
used from a distance, in their hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get
really close to the attacker to use them as a
weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys
you're not worth it.
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:=20
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or
in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell,
look them in the face and ask them a question, like
what time is it, or make general small talk: can't
believe it is so cold out here, we're in for a bad
winter. Now that you've seen their faces and could
identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a
target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your
hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back!
Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd
leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she
would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are
looking for an EASY target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a
huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever
he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it
out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with
strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If
you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch
the attacker either under the arm between the elbow
and armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One
woman in a class this guy taught told him she used
the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date
rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin
and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches.
Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you
can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I
know from a particularly unfortunate experience that
if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful.
You might think that you'll anger the guy and make
him want to hurt you more, but the thing these
rapists told our instructor is that they want a
woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start
causing trouble, and he's out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his
first two fingers and bend them back as far as
possible with as much pressure pushing down on them
as possible. The instructor did it to me without
using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and
both knuckles cracked audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply.
Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone
with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior,
don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may
feel little silly at the time, but you'd feel much
worse if the guy really was trouble.
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers
but there will be some, where you will go "hmm I
must remember that" After reading, forward it to
someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in
this crazy world we live in.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest
point on your body. If you are close enough to use
it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans:
if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO
NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....
chances are that he is more interested in your
wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the
wallet/purse.
RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car:
Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out
the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver
won't see you but everybody else will. This has
saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars
after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit
(doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T
DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this
is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the
passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you
where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS ,
LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a
parking lot, or parking garage: a. Be aware: look
around your car as someone may be hiding at the
passenger side , peek into your car, inside the
passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO
THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you! u are parked next to a big van, enter
your car from the passenger door. Most serial
killers attack their victims by pulling them into
their vans while the women are attempting to get
into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of
your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is
sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may
want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a
guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS
BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid
than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs.
(Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the
perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under
his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit
you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even
then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic:
STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy,
the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated
man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of
unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a
limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or
with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next
victim.
I'd like you to forward this to all the women you
know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by
lighting another candle. I was going to send this to
the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers,
wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to
pass it onto them, as well.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be
reminded that the world we live in has a lot of
crazies in it and it's better safe than sorry.
 James Blunt - You're Beautiful
My life is brilliant.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I'm sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won't lose no sleep on that,
'Cause I've got a plan.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw you face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.
Yeah, she caught my eye,
As we walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
so high,
And I don't think that I'll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last till the end.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw you face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.
But it's time to face the truth,
I will never be with you. c",)
Have you ever enjoyed dating someone and
once you had the "serious talk" everything
changed for the worse? Have you ever had a
job you loved until everyone, including you,
started talking about your promotion and
your future and all the sudden your job
wasn't as much fun anymore? Or, have you
ever fallen out of love with a hobby when you
decided to make a career and a living out of
it? All these experiences include one
ingredient that is not supposed to be in the
mix of life -- heavy energy. Not heavy cream.
We're talking heavy energy. Stress, fear,
tension and pressure-they all block your
energy from flowing. Energy wants to be
light. It wants to flow free. When you're
enjoying a date and not thinking about
marrying the person, you are free to have a
great time. Once you start adding pressure to
the relationship, tense energy is felt
immediately and blocks the free flowing
energy. Similarly, if you start thinking too
much about a promotion and your future, you
forget to enjoy your job today. Pressure and
other forms of heavy energy can ruin our love
of anything. Whether its writing, selling crafts
or playing a football game, if we put too much
pressure on ourselves to succeed, make
money, finish on time, or win, we risk losing
the joy that made us successful in the first
place. The key to life-long success and
sustained energy is to blow away the heavy
energy clouds and let the happy energy flow.
Here are a few tips to let your happiness flow:
1- Loosen your grip-nothing in life is
permanent. Seasons change. People come
in and out of your life. Money is made and
lost. Even fame comes and goes. Once you
realize that nothing lasts forever you are free
to enjoy what you have while you have it.
Don't be attached to results because they will
change. Enjoy the process. Work hard to
achieve your goals but don't let the outcome
drive you. Discover the internal motivation
that doesn't tire and you will find both
happiness and success. Let go of your
attachment to people and relationships.
2- Watch how people become attracted to
your energy, rather than being scared of it.
Stop expecting everything to be a certain
way. Nothing goes as planned. Be flexible
and enjoy the moment rather than fighting for
a certain result. When you become less
attached to people, outcomes, and
expectations, you will develop a natural
rhythm and allow you to create more
happiness and success with less effort and
struggle.
3- Pray for guidance. Ultimately we all need
to realize that we are not in control. There is
a higher and greater power that defines the
laws of energy in the universe. We are
merely actors in a play or players on a field.
We make decisions and take actions, but
sometimes the unexpected happens. Life
often presents situations beyond our comfort
level, taking our lives in unimaginable
directions. We are faced with tests every day.
We may lose a client one day and our job the
next. During these experiences we have a
choice. We can try to take them on ourselves.
We can try to control the situation. Or, we
can surrender. We can defer to our higher
power, whatever this may mean to you, and
tap into a more powerful energy source.
When you surrender, your life will flow more
effortlessly and peacefully. When you are
faced with a difficult situation, pray for
guidance. Ask for help and know that you are
not alone. Ask for the strength and wisdom to
get through a difficult time. Ask for direction to
a better and happier life. Be open to
receiving this guidance, take action and
watch how your life flows in a new and
exciting direction. Watch how opportunities
appear seemingly from nowhere.
4- Believe that everything happens for a
reason. When you develop this belief system,
your happiness is no longer controlled by
daily events and situations in your life. You
realize that every person you meet is in your
life for a reason. Every event helps you
become the person you were born to be.
Every struggle teaches you a lesson. And
every success points you in the right
direction. When you believe that everything
happens for a reason, life becomes less of a
struggle and more of a game. With curious
optimism you wait to see what happens next
and how events unfold. You laugh when
someone you met years ago comes back into
your life for a specific and significant reason.
You understand why certain events didn't go
your way when at the time you wished they
did. You love it when you connect two people
and they become best of friends or business
partners. You smile when an experience with
your children teaches you that you need to
be more flexible and fun. You enjoy
connecting the dots and putting together the
puzzle of your life. It's even more fun when
you realize there will always be new pieces
to add to your puzzle. When you believe
everything happens for a reason you go
through life with more energy, more
optimism, more curiosity and more fun.
Power Statement: (Say this daily) I allow
more energy into my life by letting it flow
instead of struggling with it. I loosen my grip,
pray for guidance and believe that everything
happens for a reason. May your day be filled
with boundless energy!
 "HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOUR MAN TRULY
LOVES YOU?"
*** You catch him a number of times gazing
lovingly
at you.
*** He finds everything that you do really sexy -
whether it's doing the dishes, cooking, or simply
brushing your hair - it doesn't matter - it's all sexy
to him.
*** He'll touch and caress every roll, fold, and spill
on your body and he'll tell you that you don't have
to lose weight for him to love you more. :)
*** He watches you sleep.
*** He doesn't get mad if you fall asleep in the
middle of foreplay because you were too drunk
and he still won't get mad if you still can't make
love
the following morning because of a hang over. :)
*** He brings you lunch at work - even though he's
tired or has not slept.
*** He'll stay up and listen to you run your mouth
about anything and everything - even if it is
nonsense. He'll even put his 2 cents in.
*** He'll give you space when you want to be
alone...just one of 'em days! (PMS City!)
*** He doesn't hold back. He'll tell you straight up
how he feels. He'll tell you straight up that he
loves you.
*** He takes you to meet his family and keeps you
involved in family festivities. Ladies, this counts as
3 REASONS! Oh and Ladies, if your man is a big
momma's boy, the ultimate act next to a marriage
proposal (meaning: very hard for men to do) is if
he takes you to meet HIS MOMMA!
*** If you're being bad, he can't see it. It's like
Percy Sledge sang, "you can't do no wrong" when
it comes to your man.
*** He feeds you. He wants you to try every good
food he's had.
*** He cooks for you - more than you cook for him!
*** He won't let you do the dishes or peel 'em
skrimps so your hands don't get messed up or
start funkin' like seafood. :)
*** He can't keep his hands and lips of you. He'll
hug, touch, and/or kiss you every chance he gets.
*** He'll share with you or tell you about anything
significant that goes on in his life - whether it is a
promotion, family drama, or a night out with his
boys that he has been looking forward to.
*** He can't lie to you.
*** He supports you with all your endeavors -
whether it is a new business venture, a career
change, pottery class, a new weight loss program,
a drastic makeover, etc.
*** He is "happy with however you look" - even
when you are at your worst - bad hair day, no
shower, sweaty - it doesn't matter!
*** He doesn't think twice about kissing you in the
morning right when you get up - even if your
breath is hummin' like funk city all up in your
mouth.
*** He is eager to meet your family and he
encourages you to attend family gatherings.
*** He encourages you to go out and have fun with
your friends because he wants you to relax and
have fun - and not just because he wants to go
out with his friends.
*** He risks getting his license revoked by driving
100mph just to make it in time for your date.
*** He brings you your favorite flowers...just
because.
*** He says things like: "I love you for your
personality - even though crazy at times. I love
you for the way you love your father. I love you
for your faith in God." :)
*** He is there for you through thick or thin. He
stays strong for you when you are at your
weakest and does not dare leave you when you
need him around most.
Below you will find a variety of kiss types. If you find some that catch your fancy, feel free to try them :-)
Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.
Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.
Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.
Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.
Eye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go... then slowly kiss up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.
Eyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed, very very gently kiss the spot right below their browbone. A very intimate kiss.
Finger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.
Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.
Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.
Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.
French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Surprisingly, the French call this "The English Kiss".
Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.
Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.
Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.
Hostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!
Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.
Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.
Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.
Lick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual.
Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.
Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.
Reverse Lips Kiss - It involves standing above your lover and kissing them from over their head. This way, each kisser can take the hyper-sensitive bottom lip of thier lover in their mouths, and GENTLY draw blood to the surface of the lip by nibbling and sucking. A very sensuous, connecting kiss.
Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue to gently tickle and kiss your lover's navel. Vary speeds and stroke to change sensation. Invigorating and intoxicating.
Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.
Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.
Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."
Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.
The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.
The Whipped Cream Kiss - Dip your finger into some cool whip or whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your partner and kiss them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for a wonderfully sweet kiss. It's very seductive and passionate.
Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.
Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.
Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very sexy :-)
Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.
Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.
Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!
 The Strength of a Man
The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his
shoulders.
It's in the width of his arms that encircle you.
The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his
voice.
It's in the gentle words he whispers.
The strength of a man isn't how many buddies he
has.
It's how good a buddy he is with his children.
The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is
at work.
It's IN HOW RESPECTED HE IS AT HOME.
The strength of a man isn't in how hard he hits.
It's in how tender he touches.
The strength of a man isn't in the hair on his chest.
It's in his heart, that lies within his chest.
The strength of a man isn't how many women he's
loved.
IT'S IN BEING TRUE TO ONE WOMAN.
The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift.
It's in the burdens he can carry.
"HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOUR MAN TRULY
LOVES YOU?"
*** You catch him a number of times gazing
lovingly
at you.
*** He finds everything that you do really sexy -
whether it's doing the dishes, cooking, or simply
brushing your hair - it doesn't matter - it's all sexy
to him.
*** He'll touch and caress every roll, fold, and spill
on your body and he'll tell you that you don't have
to lose weight for him to love you more. :)
*** He watches you sleep.
*** He doesn't get mad if you fall asleep in the
middle of foreplay because you were too drunk
and he still won't get mad if you still can't make
love
the following morning because of a hang over. :)
*** He brings you lunch at work - even though he's
tired or has not slept.
*** He'll stay up and listen to you run your mouth
about anything and everything - even if it is
nonsense. He'll even put his 2 cents in.
*** He'll give you space when you want to be
alone...just one of 'em days! (PMS City!)
*** He doesn't hold back. He'll tell you straight up
how he feels. He'll tell you straight up that he
loves you.
*** He takes you to meet his family and keeps you
involved in family festivities. Ladies, this counts as
3 REASONS! Oh and Ladies, if your man is a big
momma's boy, the ultimate act next to a marriage
proposal (meaning: very hard for men to do) is if
he takes you to meet HIS MOMMA!
*** If you're being bad, he can't see it. It's like
Percy Sledge sang, "you can't do no wrong" when
it comes to your man.
*** He feeds you. He wants you to try every good
food he's had.
*** He cooks for you - more than you cook for him!
*** He won't let you do the dishes or peel 'em
skrimps so your hands don't get messed up or
start funkin' like seafood. :)
*** He can't keep his hands and lips of you. He'll
hug, touch, and/or kiss you every chance he gets.
*** He'll share with you or tell you about anything
significant that goes on in his life - whether it is a
promotion, family drama, or a night out with his
boys that he has been looking forward to.
*** He can't lie to you.
*** He supports you with all your endeavors -
whether it is a new business venture, a career
change, pottery class, a new weight loss program,
a drastic makeover, etc.
*** He is "happy with however you look" - even
when you are at your worst - bad hair day, no
shower, sweaty - it doesn't matter!
*** He doesn't think twice about kissing you in the
morning right when you get up - even if your
breath is hummin' like funk city all up in your
mouth.
*** He is eager to meet your family and he
encourages you to attend family gatherings.
*** He encourages you to go out and have fun with
your friends because he wants you to relax and
have fun - and not just because he wants to go
out with his friends.
*** He risks getting his license revoked by driving
100mph just to make it in time for your date.
*** He brings you your favorite flowers...just
because.
*** He says things like: "I love you for your
personality - even though crazy at times. I love
you for the way you love your father. I love you
for your faith in God." :)
*** He is there for you through thick or thin. He
stays strong for you when you are at your
weakest and does not dare leave you when you
need him around most.
 Guy Secret
-When a GUY is quiet and is alone,
He is thinking of you and he misses you.
-When a GUY is lying on his bed,
He is thinking deeply why he loves you.
-When a GUY looks at you in your eyes,
He wants to tell you how much he loves
you and how important you are to him.
-When a GUY answers "I'm Fine" after a while,
He is not and feels hurt.
-When a GUY keep asking you the same question,
He is wondering why you are lying.
-When a GUY hugs you while sleeping,
He is wishing that you belong to him forever.
-When a GUY calls you everyday,
He Miss You and wants your attention.
-When a GUY wants to see you everyday,
He cares for you and he wants to know how
are you today.
-When a GUY sends message to you everyday,
He wants you to know he is fine.
-When a GUY says I love you,
He really means it.
-When a GUY says that he can't live without you,
He has made up his mind that you are his future
wife.
-When a GUY says "I Miss You",
He wants to see you immediately.
THE RIGHT ONE
Somebody once told me that: "Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong... it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there...you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you... and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow "God is preparing somebody for you."
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship. You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made.
If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences and live like hell for the rest of your life. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
Freedom of Simplicity
By Bo Sanchez
Happiness is not found outside of you. It doesn't
come from cars, clothes,cash, or Caribbean
cruises. Happiness is found within. But how can
you find it if you don't have the simplicity of time
and space to discover the most important things in
your life?
How can you search the depths of your soul if you
are too busy impressing others, acquiring wealth,
protecting your properties, and paying your debts?
Simplicity is not about the external either: living in
a doghouse, eating in Hepatitis joints, wearing rags.
Let me define what it is: Simplicity is living from the
core of your being.
A TREASURE MAP OF HAPPINESS
Simplicity will point to you where and what and
who the gold is in your life. Let me share with you
the seven powerful lessons I've learned on simple
living:
1. LIVE ON LESS, AND DELIGHT IN THEM MORE
Some take their pleasure dining in classy
restaurants, trips to Europe, and owning the latest
home theatre-equipment. I've chosen the simple
path: If I can simply be with my wife, or take a
quiet stroll under a canopy of stars, or play with a
child, or read a good book in my home, or laugh
with
friends over a pizza, I consider myself richly
blessed.
Focus on what you have and not on what you don't
have.
2. STOP RUNNING AND WALK INSTEAD
Here's the truth: The person who has covered the
greatest distance does NOT win, but the one who
has most enjoyed the journey does. Stop running
around chasing your own tail!
Get off your hurried pace and learn to breathe.
Replace doing with being. Learn to say no to
invitations, appointments, and commitments,
activities and events that will rob you of your focus.
Learn to say "yes" to rest, to tranquility, to
quietness.
3. YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR WEALTH
I own very few things today. Because I am more
than the brand of my watch,the logo of my shoes,
the name of my car. I believe that if in my soul I
deeply respect and value myself, people around me
will sense that, and they too, will value and respect
me-whether I'm wearing Armani or not.
You are more than your wealth.
4. AVOID BUYING ON CREDIT
I don't believe in borrowing from credit cards. (For
convenience, I use one card but I pay the whole
amount at the end of each month.) If I need
something really bad, I save up for it. Sometimes,
at midpoint, I realize I don't really need the darn
thing and give up the whole idea. The only
exception I feel we should enter into a credit is
when buying a non-depreciating item, such as
housing or land. I believe we should always live
within our earning capacity. Proverbs 22:7
says, "Those who borrow are slaves of
moneylenders."
5. GIVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN
If I content myself with P250 shirt instead of
P4,000 Lacoste, I can help others more.
Trust me, there is immense pleasure! You will find
that the empty thrill of owning a
diamond ring on your finger pales in comparison to
the joy of handling a piece of bread to an orphan
child.
"And God is able to make all grace abound to you,
so that in all things at all times, having all that you
need, you will abound in every good work." (2
Corinthians 9:8)
The Old Testament of tithing, or giving 10% of your
income is a good guideline to follow. The New
Testament challenges us to give with a cheerful
heart. (When you're cheerful,
you may give more than 10%!) Make it a habit.
6. SAVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN
Saving is essential to being good stewards of the
money that God "lends" to us. Saving is an
important way of providing for our future-both for our
needs and to be generous to others. I recommend
that you save at least 10% of your income. I can
almost hear you now: "Bo, that's impossible!" Oh
yeah? Well, how did you live three years back
when your salary was one-half its present
amount?" Sacrifice. Many of our needs are actually
wants. Is cable TV a need? Will
you suddenly die if you can't watch CNN or HBO?
Are those new golf clubs essential to your
existence? Invest in time deposits, long-term
stocks and housing.
7. BUDGET, BUDGET, BUDGET
Make a list of all your monthly expenses,
according to categories. Make also a list of
irregular expenses-those that don't come monthly.
Set up another savings account for these expenses
and put in a little money each month. To
differentiate this from the savings account, we call
ours "freedom account" because it frees us from
worrying about them when they suddenly attack.
And stick to your budget!
ONE LAST WORD BEFORE WE CLOSE
Balance.
Don't take living simply to the extremes! Living
simply doesn't mean living in deprivation. There are
special days when my wife and I eat in a fancy
restaurant. Or, when we splurge into a
vacation. Very rare, yes, but my point is that you
take living simply NOT as a rigid goal- but as a
happy process towards the goals of generosity,
inner peace and holiness.
Have a nice day! God Bless. 
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